Here Is What I Did To Improve My Sex Life

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Is your sex life getting, ugh a little stale?  I mean we have all been there.  Last night my wife and I finally had “the discussion”.  I took the hint, I mean our three times weekly love nights, slowly eroded into two times, and even in the last week just a quick missile hickey in the morning.  The problem isn’t that we both don’t enjoy it, I mean that’s a bit part of why we got married in the first place, we both REALLY enjoy it.  But it just was too routine, night after night.

It was an awkward conversation, and I’m really glad she felt comfortable to bring it up. I always was proud of my prowess and we have been together for four really good and satisfying years. Not only has the sex been good, it’s also been fun. I wanted to bring my “A” game back and come up with a way to turn this around.  Too much has been invested in this relationship to just let it go flat.

What we decided is we would both bring something to the table, come up with some good ideas to get us back on track, and I’m glad to report things have been looking up, I mean really UP.

Here is what is working for us right now:

1:  Sext throughout the day

One of my biggest learnings is that sex doesn’t have to start at night after dinner.  A little text even when we are alone in our apartment can really turn her on.  When she is in the other room, a little message like “can’t wait to see you naked tonight”, can get her so excited.  And it doesn’t have to be text sometimes a picture is worth a thousand words! 

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2:  Shut Up and …

The problem with being best friends with my wife is that we both love to talk.  And we found that we can even get into a random conversation in the middle of our love night.  We set a rule to not do this anymore.  Instead, we tried on hot talk, or dirty talk.  I let her know how sexy she is and even a fantasy that I want to play out with her.  Man, that makes her go wild.

3: Strip her into Seduction

I wasn’t sure I could pull this off but it went great.  I used the 50% Off and Free Shipping offer code LOVETOYS that AdamAndEve.com provided me and I bought some really fun men’s underwear one night and planned out a whole striptease.  And it was just that, a tease.   I started off with the Classic Satin Lounge Pants but those didn’t stay on long.  Underneath I was wearing the Brown Leopard Shorts just before the big reveal the Black Cobra Micro G-String.   It was sexy and fun. I’ve never bought anything like this for myself, but I figured why not.  It’s so popular right now, she asks me are you going to wear that thing tonight?  It turns her on so much that she lays it on the bed for me some nights.  This great offer from AdamandEve.com ( remember to enter LOVETOYS at the checkout) makes everything so affordable with free shipping and they include lots of freebies in the package, I really recommend them!  But don’t worry this isn’t all me, there is even more to choose for her from Adam and Eve and well let’s just say a sexy nurse might be visiting us soon!

4: Movie Night

TV and Chill, has become just that.  In fact, if I could come up with anyone contributing factor for our sex life going stale it would be too good TV.  Damn it, “just another episode, we just have to find out what happens to…” is really getting in the way of my game.  Well, that sort of changed when I got that first package from AdamAndEve.com.   In the package was a little card with a bunch of FREE streaming sexy movies.  I have to admit we haven’t quite finished a movie yet, and they don’t all have the best plot lines, but when it’s my night to pick the show, the show is 4D and no glasses are required.

5: Sexy Playlist

Music can change the mood.  We never really thought about music before, we just turned on the radio.  But lately, we have had a lot of fun making a sex playlist on my phone.  Now she texts me and tells me to add a new song.  The whole rhythm changes when her song comes on.  I think she is surprised I’m paying that much attention. 

6:  Pheromone Massage it’s a Thing

When I was on my shopping spree at Adam and Eve with that 50% OFF discount code LOVETOYS I bought this:  Pheromone Massage Oil I don’t know really the science behind all of this, but it’s crazy amazing, the smell is great and it really does turn us both on.  Warning: just a little bit of this stuff goes a really long way. Even so, we are on our third bottle already!  This stuff is that good.

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7:  It doesn’t the have to be in the Bedroom

It sounds weird, but like 90 percent of the time we have sex it’s in the bedroom.  The other night she grabbed me by hand and lead me to the couch.  On the couch, I could try positions I haven’t tried in a long time, and wow I think I even made up some.  I think next up is the car!

8:  The Silky Blindfold

This was her surprise for me.  Inspired by my shopping spree at AdamandEve.com, she surprised me with a blindfold.   I’m usually the one in control, but this allowed her to set the rules.  She got this one, it’s a his and her blindfold so I get my turn too.  If you use the code LOVETOYS you get free shipping, and the free movies and three surprise gifts!

I hope these tips inspire you to have better sex tonight.  It’s really all about having fun and I want to thank AdamandEve.com for allowing us to do that.  Just invite your partner to check the site out and see for yourself, I’m sure that you will find plenty to keep you busy for a long, long time.  Going at it solo, don’t worry there is plenty for you there as well.  Just enter the coupon code LOVETOYS at the checkout, and you get 50% off almost any single item on the site, Free Discreet Shipping, an on-demand 6-pack of movies, and even a Free Romance Kit, something for her, something for you and something you both can enjoy!  It’s all good fun and a little relief that we can all use right about now.